HAYA
ï¿½MANDANDIR
ï¿½irkin olan iï¿½leri baï¿½kalarï¿½na aï¿½ï¿½k
kelimelerle anlatmak, fuhuï¿½ sï¿½z sï¿½ylemek demektir. Cinsï¿½yette ve abdest
bozmakta kullanï¿½lan kelimeleri sï¿½ylemek bï¿½yledir. Harama yakï¿½n mekruhtur.
ï¿½ï¿½nkï¿½ bunlarï¿½ sï¿½ylemek mï¿½slï¿½man olanï¿½n mï¿½rï¿½vvetine uygun deï¿½ildir. Utanmayï¿½
giderir ve baï¿½kalarï¿½nï¿½ gï¿½cendirir. Mï¿½rï¿½vvet insaniyet demektir. ï¿½irkin
kelimeleri sï¿½ylemek ï¿½cï¿½b ettiï¿½i zaman aï¿½ï¿½k olarak sï¿½ylememeli, kinaye
olarak sï¿½ylemelidir. Kinaye, bir ï¿½eyi, aï¿½ï¿½k ma'nï¿½larï¿½ baï¿½ka olan kelimelerle
anlatmaktï¿½r. Terbiyeli ve edebli kimse, fuhuï¿½ sï¿½ylemeï¿½e mecbur olunca
kinayeli olarak konuï¿½ur. ï¿½ï¿½nkï¿½ hadï¿½si ï¿½eriflerde buyuruldu ki:
(Mii'min, ayï¿½playï¿½cï¿½, ia'net edici, ï¿½irkin sï¿½z sï¿½yleyici ve hayï¿½sï¿½z deï¿½ildir.)
(Fuhuï¿½tan, ï¿½irkin sï¿½zden ï¿½ok sakï¿½nï¿½nï¿½z. ï¿½ï¿½nkï¿½ Allahï¿½ teï¿½lï¿½ fuhuï¿½ sï¿½yleyenleri,
ï¿½ovenleri sevmez.)
Ya'nï¿½ fuhuï¿½ sï¿½yleyenler bunun cezasï¿½nï¿½ ï¿½ekmedikï¿½e Cennete giremezler.
Haya, ya'nï¿½ utanmak gï¿½zel bir haslettir. Hadï¿½si ï¿½erifte buyuruldu ki:
(Allahï¿½ teï¿½lï¿½dan haya ediniz!)
Allahï¿½ teï¿½lï¿½dan haya etmek, nefsin isteklerini terk etmekle ve dinin emirlerini
yerine getirmekle olur. Nefsin istediï¿½i her ï¿½ey insanï¿½n zararmadï¿½r. ï¿½nsanï¿½n
nefsi kadar ahmak bir mahlï¿½k yoktur. Nefsin istediklerini bï¿½rakï¿½p haya
eden, Allahï¿½ teï¿½lï¿½dan korkar. O'nun razï¿½ olmadï¿½ï¿½? iï¿½lerden ve sï¿½zlerden
kaï¿½ï¿½nï¿½r.
Hadï¿½si ï¿½eriflerde buyuruldu ki:
(Mï¿½'min, ayï¿½plamaz kï¿½namaz, fahiï¿½ sï¿½z sï¿½ylemez ve kimseyi kï¿½tï¿½lemez.)
(Cennet, fahiï¿½ [ï¿½irkin, ayï¿½p] sï¿½z sï¿½yleyenlere haramdï¿½r.)
(Sokaklarda dolaï¿½arak ï¿½irkin sï¿½z sï¿½yliyen kimseleri, Allahï¿½ teï¿½lï¿½ sevmez.)
(Kï¿½tï¿½ ve ï¿½irkin sï¿½z, mï¿½nafï¿½klï¿½ktan bir ï¿½ubedir
(ï¿½irkin sï¿½zï¿½n ve birbirine fahiï¿½ sï¿½z sï¿½ylemenin tslï¿½miyyette yeri yoktur.)
Gayri mï¿½slimlerin ï¿½lï¿½lerine de kï¿½tï¿½ sï¿½z sï¿½yliyerek, onlarï¿½ sevenleri
incitmemelidir. Peygamber efendimiz, Bedir'de ï¿½ldï¿½rï¿½len mï¿½ï¿½riklere kï¿½tï¿½
sï¿½z sï¿½ylemeyi yasaklï¿½yarak buyurdu ki:
(Bunlara sï¿½vmeyin, kï¿½tï¿½ sï¿½z sï¿½ylemeyin! ï¿½ï¿½nkï¿½ sizin sï¿½yledikleriniz, ï¿½lï¿½lere
gitmez. Ancak geride kalanlarï¿½na eziyet etmiï¿½ olursunuz.)
Sï¿½vï¿½p sayan ve kï¿½tï¿½ sï¿½z sï¿½yliyen kimselere
sï¿½zï¿½mï¿½z geï¿½erse mï¿½ni olmak, mï¿½ni olamazsak onlardan uzak durmak lï¿½zï¿½mdï¿½r.
Hadï¿½si ï¿½erifte, (Haya ï¿½mï¿½ndandï¿½r. Fuhuï¿½ sï¿½z sï¿½ylemek cefï¿½dandï¿½r, ï¿½mï¿½n
Cennete, cefï¿½ Cehenneme gï¿½tï¿½rï¿½r) buyuruldu.
(Haya ï¿½mï¿½ndan) olduï¿½una gï¿½re, hayï¿½sï¿½z kimsenin ya ï¿½mï¿½nï¿½ zayï¿½ftï¿½r veya
hiï¿½ yoktur. Hayï¿½sï¿½z bir kimsenin, (Kalbim temizdir, ï¿½mï¿½nï¿½m kuvvetlidir)
demesinin asï¿½lsï¿½z olduï¿½u anlaï¿½ï¿½lï¿½r.
Hayanï¿½n en kï¿½ymetlisi, Allahï¿½ Teï¿½lï¿½dan utanmaktï¿½r. Allahï¿½ Teï¿½lï¿½dan utanan
kimse, bï¿½tï¿½n ï¿½irkin iï¿½lerden uzak durur. Kendine ve insanlï¿½ï¿½a dï¿½ima iyilik
yapar.
Kï¿½tï¿½ kimseler, ï¿½mï¿½n ile hayanï¿½n birlikte bulunduï¿½unu bildiklerinden, mï¿½slï¿½manlarï¿½n
ï¿½mï¿½nlarï¿½nï¿½ ï¿½almak iï¿½in hayalarï¿½nï¿½ yok etmeï¿½e ï¿½alï¿½ï¿½ï¿½yorlar. Fuhuï¿½ sï¿½zlere,
seks bilgisi diyorlar. Mï¿½slï¿½manlarbu bakï¿½mdan hayalarï¿½nï¿½n gitmemesi
iï¿½in ï¿½ok dikkat etmelidirler. Islï¿½miyyet, hem fen bilgilerinde ï¿½alï¿½ï¿½mayï¿½,
hem de gï¿½zel ahlï¿½klï¿½ olmayï¿½, herkese iyilik yapmayï¿½ emretmektedir. Mï¿½slï¿½manlar,
cï¿½hillerin yalanlarï¿½na aldanmamalï¿½, onlarï¿½n ï¿½ï¿½plak gezmelerini, seks
bilgisi adï¿½ altï¿½nda fuhuï¿½ sï¿½ylemelerini fï¿½ideli bir ï¿½ey zannetmemelidir.
Bï¿½tï¿½n gï¿½zellikler, iyilikler islï¿½m ahlï¿½kmdadï¿½r. Bï¿½tï¿½n ï¿½irkinlikler, kï¿½tï¿½lï¿½kler
ise, ahlï¿½ksï¿½z ve hayï¿½sï¿½z olmaktadï¿½r
